Wed, Dec 29, 2010 at 3:18 PM
Ok this is off the topic of our girl Nicki. I just have a random thought that I would like to throw out there to my PF family.
Why is it that in relationships a man feels he can get away with almost anything? I see this so much > Men take advantage of a girl with low self esteem and get in her home that she has worked hard to establish and wreck it. Mind you she thinks no one will love her because of her own low self worth. He takes her money and sits on her couch (smoking and drinking), and having his boys over while she goes off to work. He eats her food, she buys him clothes. He breaks her off and then takes her car and stays out til the sun beats him home. She might as well be alone. Because she feels false love and even though she knows the realtionship is toxic, she is now afraid to be alone again. He gets arrested, she bails him out. Now money is tight and they fight all the time until he leaves her to go live with another lowself esteem girl...and the cycle continues.
Another thing that blows my mind -
A guy with kids finds a new girlfriend and the girlfriend claims she loves him so much but hates his kid(s). How can you love a man and not accept his child? The new woman makes it so hard for the baby's mom and she is struggling trying to care for her kid(s) alone. The new girlfriend can't even handle the fact that her boyfriend and the kid(s) mom have to communicate for the sake of the kid(s). The new girlfriend gets crazy and starts bringing drama to babymom's way. Although I can not personally relate...It drives me crazy to see this happening. Because all the while, it is the children who suffer. Now daddy doesn't come around anymore because new girl is too insecure. Shame! Every girl that I have met that has a "babydaddy" tells me that she still sleeps with him whenever she wants...girlfriend or no girlfriend. I am sure there are stories where the case is different... but this is what I have seen. Your thoughts?